by Taylor Smith
When choose to study abroad in South Africa, I really did not take into consideration the negative effects of experiencing a culture so different from what I am used too. I choose it because I have a strong desire for adventure, and well what country could be more adventurous? Anyways, I have began preparing myself for the new exciting encounters that I have in store, but before today I hadn't really planned for the downside of culture shock. I have however spoke with a couple of people who have traveled/lived in South Africa, and they have given me so great advice.
My first plan is to be open to the changes that will come my way. I have realized that just because something is different than what I am used to doesn't mean that it is bad. In fact, I have experienced a lot of good from trying things out side of my comfort zone. Although I consider myself to be a very scheduled person, I am planning on forcing myself to roll with the punches. I believe when in a situation like studying abroad, it is best to be flexible because planning every minute detail could potentially cause me to miss out on an amazing opportunity.
Ways to cope:
Personally, I am very close with my family, so not being able to speak or see them often is going to be my biggest hurdle. In order to deal with the homesickness, I am taking tons of photos along on my trip. I will probably only place a few in my room, but I want to be able to have something more elaborate to turn to. Along with that I am going to severely limit my amount of phone calls to home. As of right now I plan to use the internet as my means of communication with home. I haven't decided if I will use Facebook's instant message, Skype, or just email yet. More than likely it will be a combination of all three.
Secondly, I love to eat, so not eating is probably not going to be a problem for me especially since I believe trying the native cuisine is one of the best methods of experiencing a new culture. However, I do understand that I may not particularly enjoy the food, therefore I am packing a jar of peanut butter to help transition if I cannot find anything else. Plus I just really love peanut butter!
All in all I think I will be okay once I arrive and settle in. I'm sure I will encounter problems, but what great adventure doesn't?
Here's to hoping I can roll with the punches!
Taylor Smith
Having a good attitude about dealing with differences does make a difference. You may want to also think about some specific strategies that you use here to deal with stress.
ReplyDeleteUseful book: http://www.amazon.com/Culture-Shock-South-Africa-Etiquette/dp/B00DPO5ZY4
Good expat resource: http://www.expatarrivals.com/south-africa/culture-shock-in-south-africa
Look at module 1.7 at http://www2.pacific.edu/sis/culture/index.htm This is a great resource for preparing to deal with a different culture